Women, what does this mean, if you were doing this?

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Women, what does this mean, if you were doing this?

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    Lost_Pup
    Lost_Pup
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    August 12, 2019 at 10:22 pm #205301
    Women, what does this mean, if you were doing this?

    I’m so confused..
    I met a girl online a couple of months back. We’ve gone out 6 times, some of the best dates of my life. We laugh, we have fun, we talk, we share. At the end of our dates we have a very nice kiss and elongated hug. A few other kisses and hand holdings along the way. It’s weird how perfect we are for each other, she admits it too.

    BUT

    I brought up that I’d like to focus on seeing only her and no one else. She didn’t say anything. Then she went into the ‘this is a bad time’ speech, but she would think about it because she does like me.

    I didn’t contact her for a couple of days. Then she contacted me to say Hi and wondered where I’d been. Then she confessed that there was someone else she had been ‘getting to know’ at the same time as me. I asked her what that meant and she said she didn’t know because she likes us both and she’s not ready for anything.

    Today, she took her dating profile down. Is that a sign she was playing me and is with him?

    Shorte
    Shorte
    Participant
    August 13, 2019 at 7:25 am #205306

    This means that she chooses between the two of you, what she wrote to you suggests that you still have a chance. Do not give up, otherwise, she will run away from you. Water does not flow under a still stone.

    Jolana
    Jolana
    Participant
    August 16, 2019 at 12:30 pm #205565

    she is maybe waiting to see who will show more effort and interest into her

    Jolana
    Jolana
    Participant
    August 16, 2019 at 12:30 pm #205566

    she is maybe waiting to see who will show more effort and interest into her

    healthyrelation
    healthyrelation
    Participant
    August 16, 2019 at 5:40 pm #205590

    At the moment, I think she is caught between the lines and confused, my advice to you is that you keep a good composure and still make time to communicate to here, in time she will fall in line.

    Mr Courting
    Mr Courting
    Participant
    August 27, 2019 at 2:41 pm #206180

    She doesn’t seem to know what she wants at the moment. I would give her some space, check back occasionally to see how she is doing with all of this and if she still is interested in being with you; if you continue to get roundabout answers or she is returning your messages, it would be best at that time to move on. If she wants to reconnect at a later time, she can do this, but with no guarantees.