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[jm123098]

June 13, 2019 at 3:14 pm #202035

Was this rude of her?

So I’ve been seeing this girl and an instance happened the other night, this would have been the 3rd time I seen her.
So we were chilling at her house and all that and she said my Adam’s apple was odd, I told her I was self conscious about it and we were grand. So later on in the night she said I’d a “five-head” referring to a big forehead. Then she asked if I washed my face to which I replied I get showered every day so not really my skins not that bad and she replied “I think you should it’s really oily”. These comments did make me feel uncomfortable granted you could see the fivehead thing as a joke but I felt like it was a bit much when this was only the 3rd time seeing her. Do I confront her about it as it’s really made me take a step back.

[dashingscorpio]

June 14, 2019 at 12:55 pm #202118

You said you have “seen” her three times.
Is this a platonic relationship? Romantic relationship? Have you kissed? or Had sex?
From what you have described of her it doesn’t sound like she is into YOU!

If I were you I wouldn’t bother confronting her. I wouldn’t step back. I would move on and never look back!
You get to choose who you spend your time with.
Anyone who invests time pointing out all of your “perceived physical flaws” thinks you’re not good enough.

You’d be wasting your time trying to (get her to change who she is) or how she determines beauty.
Essentially she’s told you that you have an odd Adam’s apple, big forehead, and oily skin.
If she’s obsessed with your physical appearance on some level she is telling you she’s NOT attracted to YOU!
At this stage you are within your rights to simply ghost her or vanish. Three dates does not require closure.

[Attraction Intelligence]

July 12, 2019 at 8:23 pm #203616

Any good news between the two of you?

[StillToBe]

July 16, 2019 at 11:15 pm #203821

I can answer this one very quickly. Even if she was into you, would you really want to get into a relationship with a person like that? Don’t think with your stick, think with your head.

[dukcy]

July 21, 2019 at 5:43 pm #204073

That’s a little iffy and rude

[SeriousAquarius]

July 21, 2019 at 11:18 pm #204078

Anyone who likes you but doesn’t love the way you look is exercising control of you by giving you insecurities, she probably is not so perfect herself.

[sunshine2]

July 23, 2019 at 2:04 pm #204205

I think she was very rude with her comments about you. I think I would dump her, or have another date and see how it goes, but if she starts making unwanted comments about you, dump her