Should I ask this girl to hangout or find someone else

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Should I ask this girl to hangout or find someone else

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    nick-98-c
    nick-98-c
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    October 9, 2019 at 8:42 pm #223172
    Should I ask this girl to hangout or find someone else

    Here’s a backstory, it’s kind of a weird situation so not sure what to do. So there’s this girl I used to work with that I want to get to know better/possibly date. Known her for about 3 years, but I never really talked to her at work because we weren’t scheduled together much. We no longer work together so we never see one another. But I do have her number and snap, we snap pretty much daily and for a while we were snapping each other heavy. Its kinda died down now though but still pretty much daily. I don’t know her too well because we didn’t really have a chance to work together before she left my work but, I do know a little bit about her from just snapping all the time. But anyway, I’ve been wanting to get to know her better and start hanging out with her and possibly start dating. But we don’t have the same friend group or anything so it’s not like we could spend time in a group setting to get to know each other better and we don’t work together anymore so that’s out too.

    nick-98-c
    nick-98-c
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    October 9, 2019 at 8:43 pm #223173

    Had to split the description.

    I don’t want to hit her with that out of the blue though because it’s been so long and I never really showed I wanted to spend time with her like that, because at the time I didn’t want to get into a relationship or anything serious so I never tried to hang out with her. But as we’ve snapped and everything I’ve changed my mind and decided I am ready for a relationship and I want to try and make something work with her. What would be the best way to try and get to know her better and start hanging out without it being weird or out of the blue? Or should I just move on and find someone different?