I can't seem to ever get a second date, getting frustrated!

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I can't seem to ever get a second date, getting frustrated!

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    RT1995AB
    RT1995AB
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    July 11, 2019 at 10:49 am #203571
    I can't seem to ever get a second date, getting frustrated!

    I recently decided to “get back out there” after I shortly dated a guy I knew in real life and ended things with him. I am on tinder. I’ve been on this app about 9 months before and only managed to turn one of those guys into a relationship. I have been on three dates so far, which I know is not a lot, but the last one really shook me. We connected on Thursday, and he called me on the phone every day for hours. He said he really enjoyed talking to me and we seemed to have a connected. We finally decided to meet up on Monday. He was so excited and even called me on the way to the date to talk. We appeared to have a good time, we once again mentioned he enjoyed talking with me and mentioned wanting to go out again. The problem is, he totally ghosted me! He texted me the next morning “morning”. and our convo went now where besides him sending me two selfies and asking if he looked like his pictures last night. Well today I look and I see he unmatched me on Tinder. So is it me? lol

    David1964
    David1964
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    July 11, 2019 at 11:57 am #203572

    Sounds like you are way too good for the person

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    July 13, 2019 at 11:16 am #203619

    “..our convo went now where besides him sending me two selfies and asking if he looked like his pictures last night.”
    Based upon what he did and said after the date indicates he felt like YOU did not look like your profile photo.
    Essentially he is telling you he believes he honestly represented himself but felt you did not.

    The number one reason why a man pursues a woman for a date is he is physically attracted to her!
    Anything else she has to offer beyond that is “icing” on the cake.

    This is especially true regarding guys using online dating sites and apps.
    In fact most people won’t bother to read someone’s profile unless they find their photo attractive.