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jonnylaw8069ParticipantSeptember 9, 2019 at 4:07 pm #206774
So, I’ve been dating this woman for 3 years, we move in together for a entire year– this makes our fourth year now. Everything was going good until she wants to go and see her grandchildren- ( everyday or stay the night everyday ) mind you we are in our 40’s ,and her daughters family are in there 20’s. Let me give a better background for you to understand.
We dated for a year- her daughter got pregnant with child one,things went fine,, then with in that second year her daughter had baby two – so she broke up with me from needing to help her daughter with her new family ( I understood ). We picked things up after 6 months apart, and decided she was to move in with me.But during that year things start turning into needing to help her daughter every time she had off, THE KICKER
Every evening she was tired, every weekend her back hurt, and then every vacation was spent leaving me to watch her grandchildren.
Now she lives with her daughter!!!! what should I have done different
scarcegoldParticipantSeptember 11, 2019 at 5:10 pm #206923
From what you have said, I personally don’t think there’s anything you could have done differently. She may well be genuinely too tired from helping with her grandkids, but I think she could put a lot more effort in if she really wants to be with you. so ill say she’s being flaky
jonnylaw8069ParticipantSeptember 12, 2019 at 12:29 pm #206968
Well I did what I could by paying all the bills and for the most part helping her with her own bills. That might have been my first mistake.After all of this – she claims I asked her to choose from me or her family and that just wasn’t the case. So we had a sit down talk about ( what about me and her) and she took it that the relationship was over and she would never leave her family.This must be a communication problem , maybe on both ends.I am just floored about all this- how a woman can not be grown up and let others have time to grow up. Saying all that in a good way.Must be a detachment issue I think.
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