Am stuck at the crosswalks

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Am stuck at the crosswalks

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    nachoschips
    nachoschips
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    September 14, 2019 at 4:28 am #207020
    Am stuck at the crosswalks

    4 years ago I met a really nice girl and 3 years ago I told her that I LIKED her and she kinda deflected and left me hanging without an answer.The following year I did the same thing and told her I LIKED her and she also left me hanging and I REALLY REALLY REALLY like this girl to the extent of loving her.We have known each other for 4 years and we are pretty close.She is the kinda girl that say she doesn’t like being touched but when I touch her,for example put my arm around her neck,she doesn’t seem to mind and actually seems to like it judging by the way she smiles and looks at me.

    We are also study buddies and our families know each other

    So yesterday while we were studying ,when she was explaining a sum to me ,I caught myself looking at her and feeling my heart melt and I knew I had to tell her ,AGAIN, so I did

    I said “I love you” and I meant it she smiled a lot and I assumed I was on the right track and then a moment of silence came.

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    nachoschips
    nachoschips
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    September 14, 2019 at 4:37 am #207021

    After the silence she started talking about her school work and I knew I had been rejected.She implied that we are both in our final years and are about to write our final exams so we should focus on school.She said that indirectly.This girl has never been in a relationship,never had a boyfriend.
    She then says”If I was not writing I would TOTALLY date you (she said that enthusiastically) .I was out of words and some how I felt like I was about to cry so I told her that I understood and respected her decision and ended our study there and there,I told her goodnight and I went home crying.it was painful.

    I have told her that I want her 3 times but my heart is so hurt that I cannot even bear the pain but just cry.A friend told me I should wait but I can’t wait to be rejected for the fourth time so please tell me ladies and gentlemen,WHAT SHOULD I DO